Dear All,
I am a pregnant black woman, not for the first time, and I'm just wondering about other people's experiences.
I've had some very different experiences, some quite stark. In one pregnancy it never really seemed to come up beyond booking and the sickle cell test etc. In another my midwife talked quite openly and a lot about the differences in black and white women's anatomy and how this might impact pregnancy and labour (she herself was European, Italian, I believe). At first,I found it a little disconcerting, my blackness being referenced, but at the same time I appreciated the personalisation and attention to the needs of black women. Ultimately, I was grateful. Oh, and there was the Other time when during a sweep the midwife commented on my baby's lovely black curly hair and I was there, legs open thinking 'seriously, you're ALREADY touching my baby's hair now?!'
She told me, for example, that babies of African-descent typically have a shorter gestation period (around 39 weeks) so she'd keep an eye on me if i went overdue (as in 40+ weeks) because in fact my baby would be more overdue than non-black babies and need to be monitored more carefully. Do all midwives even know this? Ad other things like, for example, our pelvis is shaped differently so the baby's exit is different (though the NHS does not accommodate for that in their utensils and tools).
So, I'm wondering what other women's experiences are if you are not a white woman, but the NHS and maternity care is modelled on that of white women, and if your baby is not white, but the NHS maternity care is modelled on white babies.
Hopefully we ca share some experiences and empower ourselves or others we know when we or they become pregnant in future!