Giving birth overseas

[Ellie4280]

I’m due in April and we moved to the Caribbean (Jamaica) in the summer. Soon after arriving found out I was pregnant. We already have a four year old dd.
Having discussed our options it makes the most sense to have baby here privately as my daughter is at school and we have no one to help if I went home to the UK from 37 weeks and my husband will be at work.
My big fear is that we had complications when I delivered dd in the UK and almost lost her. It was very traumatic.
Although private healthcare here is ok it’s still a developing country and as such the facilities and responsiveness are questionable.
Also when I have told others I’ll be staying here to have baby their response has overwhelmingly been ‘really?!’
I don’t know if we’re doing the right thing by having baby here but also know that logistically it would be almost impossible to go home. Andy advice from those who have been/are in similar situations would be much appreciated.

Hi, We are not in the exact same situation in that it was not so much a matter of choice as it was a medical necessity. We were visiting my family in the developing country I am originally from when I had contractions (30w at the time) and doctors put me on strict bed rest, practically forcing us to change our plans and accept that I will have to deliver here. I can understand your hesitation and reserve, especially as you are facing a different health system, sometimes even different procedures and protocols to what you grew accustomed to - but I am also of the firm belief that worrying too much about it won't do any good to you or the baby. If you have done your best to find a doctor you trust - then what difference does it really make. As you know - the quality of care varies wildly in the UK as well, sometimes even on a micro-level within the same hospital. What matters the most is that you calm down and find the doctor or midwife you trust (ask for local recommendations, join a club of expats, connect to recent mums in your area).

Thank you - I have found a lovely ob/gyn who I feel in safe hands with. I can’t change the situation so I’ve just got to put my trust in her and the system and hope it all goes smoothly.

That's great! Good luck with everything - I am sure you and the baby will be perfectly fine!