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Stress during pregnancy from ex boyfriends

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amb38 · 20/10/2019 21:05

Hi all, I'm looking for a bit of advice... I'm 23 weeks pregnant and not with the baby's father. We split because of a number of reasons. I've recently found out he cheated on me a few weeks after I found out I was pregnant so I no longer want a relationship or any sort with him. I have said from the start that when I have our baby he could see her at my house anytime or at a public place where we both agree the same for his family because he still lives with his mum who has been giving me a load of harassment and threats and I wouldn't trust my daughter being there alone with her for many reasons and I wouldn't feel comfortable going there. Since I found out he cheated on me, I mentioned this to him and he is now demanding a dna test when my daughter is born and threatening to take me to court because he wants her to stay overnight at his home which I really wouldn't be comfortable with for a long time. I have never said he can't see her and I have been really reasonable about how much he will see her, there is also no doubt she is not his. He seems to chop and change his mind weather he is her dad and says a lot of things out of pure anger. I can't block his number as he finds any other possible way to contact me once he knows I've blocked him. E.g calling a numerous amount of times on a width-held number until I answer.

I am so stressed because of this all and so so worried about it the baby because of the amount of stress I am being out through. I was wondering who I could go to for advice because of all of this? Any advice would be appreciated.

OP posts:
hormonesorDHbeingadick · 21/10/2019 02:22

You don’t need to have any contact with his Mum, block her phone number and on social media. Any more threats after that then go to the police.

He won’t get over night custody of a baby. Go very low contact with ex, put in a cms as soon as baby arrives. If he want to pay for a dna test then he can.

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