Hi,
Help! I’m currently 38 +3 (second pregnancy) I’ve been consultant lead throughout due to the ivf and had no issues. When I last saw the consultant two weeks ago she said at 38 weeks I was to start having sweeps and then to be booked for induction on my due date at 40 weeks. I had an awful experience with my first pregnancy with failed induction which then lead too C section (I had developed pre-eclampsia) and ended up with infection afterwards and a 2week stay in hospital so I really don’t want to go down that route again. I understand why it had to be done the first time due to the pre-eclampsia but this time everything is absolutely fine and I’d love to try naturally! I queried with the consultant today why she wants me induced at 40 weeks and she says we just like to be more cautious with IVF pregnancies and we don’t like you to go over as that is the length of a pregnancy! It’s nothing to do with my previous pregnancy and experience. She had agreed to let me go over 2 days but I just feel now I’ve been put on a countdown to hurry and have this baby naturally and added more pressure! Surely they wouldn’t let everyone go over 2 weeks naturally if it added such a great risk? I would hate to go against her advice and something bad happen but at the same time I’d like to at least try a week! I was just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience and if I’m being unreasonable?! I understand if people say why would you want to risk anything when you’ve tried so hard for ivf pregnancy but I do know others that were allowed to go over due date when ivf.
Any advice and experience is greatly appreciated 
Thanks
Vik x