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Im pregnant and he hates me

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JAECARTER · 14/10/2019 21:15

So I have been with my now ex for 3 years (broke up 3 weeks ago) and we still live together hence the irresponsible intercourse. The last 3 days he found out he was so sweet and supportive (breakfast in bed, tea when i wanted etc) and tonight I told him im not aborting, I cant do it (again with an old ex)plus im BRCA2 cancer gene positive, and my family and friends are so supportive. He told me tonight he never loved me and we was never going to work. Help, is this shock, is this real? Can I even bring up a baby alone at 23? should I tell his family when I give birth?(Who dont know about me still, and are greek and live in greece)
Im young, Im not scared to have a baby, I am worried on what the right thing to do is.

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SprinkleDash · 14/10/2019 23:32

You need to take contraception more seriously in the future. Don’t let him sway your decision but do be prepared to raise the baby with no support at all from him if you decide to keep them!

SleepingStandingUp · 14/10/2019 23:37

What's the plans for him moving out? Def don't sleep with him again in an attempt to convince him to be with you or for the baby.

Who's name is in the house?

Imo the right thing is to trust yourself. You don't want to abort this baby, so don't.

He's still financially liable

purplepolo · 14/10/2019 23:53

You can 100% do this on your own!!

Have a friend who has two children, a 2yo and a baby, her ex left her and shortly after found out she was pregnant, and she has been fine and done so well! Shes got family and friends to support her.

Op honestly fuck him off..how dare he suck up to you and then you tell him you arent aborting and he turns into a prick! Living arrangments needs to be sorted, its not healthy for you to be living with someone like that.

Good luck!

Countrylifeornot · 14/10/2019 23:54

There is a chance of course that he'll go to Greece and never be seen again, you probably won't be able to claim any maintenance either in that scenario.
Do what you like, but he has told you very clearly that he doesn't want to be involved, so be prepared for him sticking to that.

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