So, firstly I believe my partner to be telling the truth.
Unknown to me. A few months ago a manager at my partners place of work went above and beyond to help secure her a better job. During this time and since then, they have been having conversations on Skype and Skype chat, which isn't something my partner normally uses. They are both on social media but not friends..
During these chats he has confessed that he has feelings for her and will do anything for her etc... From what was left of the chat, he had also said she's made herself clear that she isn't interested. With that, she's told me nothing has ever happened, I believe her.
She has never once mentioned this guy to me and she turned off notifications for Skype. She's also been clearing the chat log on a daily basis.
We were on a road trip, I was DJ on Spotify flipping between chrome and Spotify I noticed Skype with an unfamiliar face, so I had a nose... I wasn't snooping, just pure pot luck.
With all that, I still find it highly suspicious, there's no need to keep anything from me, or hide conversations.
The last messages, she had called him babe and said sweet dreams.. which is what has really wound me up.. she isn't the type of person to randomly call people babe, which I've said if you're doing that knowing how he feels you're either leading him on or something has happened.. there is some type of connection there.
So am I being unreasonable for being angry? I mean I'm not angry as in shouting and screaming, more angry in my head and I don't mean to be but I'm being off with her, one word answers and not my normal self.
We are on a weekend away together so we've had a little row and I've left it at that, I don't wanna ruin the weekend anymore than I feel like it has been and naturally I've told the guys wife (I forgot to mention he is married)
His wife read the messages then blocked me.