So we booked an early pregnancy scan for today just because we were paranoid and wanted to see all was okay. I thought I was around 5-6 weeks pregnant but turned out to be just under 5 so no heartbeat could be detected yet.
Anyway, the doctor gave some positive news which was, no chance of ectopic pregnancy, my cervix seemed closed, healthy hormones are being pumped and my ovaries looked normal. The negative was that we could see a long bleed next to the sac. It measured around 36mm in length, so I panicked straight away because this seems huge compared to the sac which was around 4mm. All I can think of now is the bleed and what will happen. I have been having some cramps, just like regular period like cramps but no signs of spotting or bleeding as of yet. She wouldn't go into too much detail, I asked if it increases my chance of miscarriage but she didn't really say, I guess she doesn't want to give any kind of answer at the moment. She said to just rest and look after myself until the next scan which I should book for 2 weeks time. She told me to just focus on the positives as bleeding can be quite common at the start.
I was going to tell my parents today about the pregnancy but now this has happened I feel a bit bummed and would rather wait till I know for sure what's happening. Has anyone else had anything similar or any advice to make me feel reassured?