After some advice/any experience (good or bad)
I was referred to the EPU with spotting, sharp one sided pains and shoulder tip pain on Thursday. Bloods were taken and HCG was 3429. Scan showed only a very small sac (in uterus) but empty (to be expected so early on. I was 5+1 or 2). I was prescribed codeine as my pulse/BP were high with pain. I was told to return today for repeat bloods.
Today I had my bloods taken. Was asked about pain. Explained it hadn't gotten any better. And if anything shoulder tip pain was worse.
I got the results. I wasn't told the number but was told they had increased 60-70%. So I know this doesn't look good. But she said she didn't want to see me til Thursday. When this morning I was told this would only be the case had my HCG doubled.
But to add insult to injury the nurse went into robot mode and basically read from a script
"If you have bleeding, one sided pain or shoulder tip pain before your next appointment you're to go to A&E..."
I interrupted with: "but that's exactly what I do have? And it's not getting better..."
And she just repeated:
"If you have bleeding, one sided pain or shoulder tip pain before your next appointment you're to go to A&E..."
This went round in circles 3 times. I ended up crying, saying thank you and ending the call.
I don't want to go to A&E for a problem I've already been seen about (or one that the same hospital doesn't seem that bothered about) but the codeine is barely touching it.
And I'm worried about the prospect of ectopic. Also of something going wrong: I have 2 children who need a well mama.
Has anyone been in this position? Or can anyone just tell me I'm being over sensitive and I need to just shush 😔 xx (Sorry for the epic post)