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Hello so long one here I have 2 children 8 and 6 and I am currently 26 weeks pregnant my baby's dad is not the dad to the other 2 but he got in to a lot of drugs while I was pregnant going out not coming home spending all the money we had on drugs an achol hasn't brought one thing for the baby nothing then I found out my daughters nitendo switch went missing then there PlayStation went missing an I spoke to him an he said they broke so he throw them in the bin I no he sold them for drugs so I have kicked him out this isn't the first time but it's over for good now as he had stolen from my children but I just feel sad for my girls they now have there things taken from them an now lost him as they did love him a lot but I could never take him back noing what he has done but I just don't no how I'm going to get my head round everything his done and move on by consontratiing on me and my children I just feel lost atm I don't no what I'm getting out of telling people this but I just felt like I needed to xx

Heya. That sounds like a whole lot of headfuck to be dealing with, I'm sorry. I don't know if it's worth reporting the theft to the police, or just full stop reporting him.

I'm sorry your kids have lost out on their things because of him. You can do this without him. And if he comes crawling, don't let him back in, even if you're super tired and emotional.

None of you need him.

Your children are better off without him. Report the theft of the consoles. Give your unborn child your surname. Cms when the child is born. Do not tAke him back.

I find it mind blowing the kind of messed up situations some children are born into (or live in, for the older two). Sadly our lives are already mapped out before we're even born in so many ways.

Exact thing happened to me 6 years ago with the father of my two children he stole my jewelry that had Alot of emotional value to me and the kids ds console he say and watched me search the whole house for these things I thought it the point I had misplaced them then I went out to the hut one day and there bikes were gone he tried to say someone had broke into the hut I knew he was lying and kicked him out he had went from a loving father to a scum bag all for his own selfish needs he wasn't like this before ever anyway I never let him back in the Home and 6 years later I'm with a wonderful man who does everything to give us all a nice life and would never steal from them please op don't let him back in your life it will only bring bad things you can get on Alot better without someone like that my mental health was in bits In the end up as he had me doubting everything but I'm happy strong and have an amazing life without him you can to op

Thank you all for ur reply's I will never let him back if he can steal from my child what other low things can he do we are all better off with out him so I'm just taking my time on coming to terms with it all but I booked a 4d scan yesterday to cheer us up and it was amazing me an the girls are going on a little hoilday today so that will help aswel I'm just a little lost atm that's all but I no we will all get there and his not worth the time or day xx