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Do I have the right to be sad after chemical pregnancy?

9 replies

Youngmama228 · 29/08/2019 22:51

So I got my first postive at what would of been 3w pregnant, and got a total of 5 postive tests. At what would of been 4w3 days I started bleeding really heavy.

Now do I have the right to feel like iv lost something or generally be sad for a little bit?
I feel like I'm over reacting and don't want to dwell on it too much but it's a day since it's happened and I'm still quite upset about it.

So do I have a right to be sad about it or is it not that big of a thing?

OP posts:
hiddeneverythin · 29/08/2019 22:53

Of course you have a right to be sad. Be as sad as you want to be. Sorry this has happened. It's tough xx

AtrociousCircumstance · 29/08/2019 22:54

Of course you have every right to be sad and feel your feelings. Be kind to yourself Flowers

Ohyesiam · 29/08/2019 22:55

Of course you have the right to be sadFlowers
You’ve lost all that hope and potential, which is what every pregnancy is, no matter whether it was” viable” or not.
It’s only a day, you’re being a bit tough on yourself.

flumpybear · 29/08/2019 23:01

You feel like you've lost your hopes and dreams
However, they're still there, you'll have your babies, don't worry
Sending hugs - eat naughty food you love that you're not allowed in pregnancy, soon you won't be able to - take care

sodrained · 29/08/2019 23:10

A loss is a loss my chemical pregnancy broke my heart more than a miscarriage at 6 weeks I'm not sure why but it did and I'm not ashamed in feeling that way, a pregnancy no matter how far along to lose it is fucking awful and I'm so sorry OP, no one deserves to experience that, I'm really hoping you have some support good luck to you in the future Thanks

Letitbegin · 29/08/2019 23:16

I can relate I had an early miscarriage last year and felt like I didn't have the right to be as upset as I was. I kept busting into tears I only know i was pregnant a few days when I started bleeding. I was too hard on myself and I would judge anyone else for how upset they were but I judged myself. Be kind to yourself a loss is a loss xx

Letitbegin · 29/08/2019 23:17

I wouldn't judge anyone else that should say

GroggyLegs · 29/08/2019 23:19

Of course you can be sad Flowers
I'm sorry this has happened.

rubyroot · 29/08/2019 23:31

Of course you do, I had one I was about 5 weeks and felt sad. It's all those hopes and dreams dissipating befire your very eyes. Allow yourself to be sad and grieve, look after yourself. X

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