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BeckyG86 · 28/08/2019 11:00

Hi there.

I will he 22 weeks pregnant tomorrow with our first baby. We have found out that we are having a girl and are very excited. For my Husband's side of the family (more so his parents) my Husband is one of two children (both boys) and his brother has two children (again both boys), so we have broken the all boys club! Hehe!

Anyway, everyone is happy and excited. We have two Nephews aged 8 and the youngest is 6 next week. They wanted a boy (of course, they are boys and want a boy to play with) but their view now is it doesn't matter as they can still play football with her! Hehe! This is their first cousin and unless we decide to have more children in the future will more than likely be their only cousin, so want to do something a little special for them this Christmas, but as our baby girl is due on 2nd January we don't want to spend a lot on presents this year. We have told people we won't be spending a lot this year as our money is going towards our baby girl and with her birth so close to Christmas Day we are not really planning much for Christmas this year as we will be on standby in case of having to go to the hospital! However, our Nephews are getting curious as to when the baby is due, etc, and expressing an interest, which is lovely. We were not there but apparently my Mother-in-law and their Mom got asked by the youngest about how the baby was going to come out of Auntie Becky's belly, another found some child friendly cartoons to explain to him (my Mother-in-law is a Health Visitor), and then following that the embarrassing question of how did the baby get in to Auntie Becky's belly came up (the reply from his Mom was that's enough for today!) so they certainly are showing interest in their new baby cousin, which is lovely.

I want to get them a little something for Christmas from their baby cousin. We gave them a card that they scratched the front off to reveal they were having a baby cousin, and I wrote a message written from the baby to them. I would like some ideas about what I could do for them now for Christmas. Like I say nothing too expensive, but a little token or keepsake.

One thing I did think about was possibly doing was getting a heartbeat bear for them when we go for a 4D scan in October (we had one when we went for our gender reveal in July), which will be £20 or if we got other things it would be reduced to £15. We would only get one between them if we did though, but as a keepsake it would go in their room (they share a bedroom). A picture in a frame of the 4D scan I feel they may find strange to have, but I really don't know.

Has anyone got any suggestions? I know it is early to be thinking about Christmas but trying to spread the cost a bit!

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MissPepper8 · 28/08/2019 13:00

Congratulations, its really lovely they're showing interest in their new baby cousin :)

As far as I can think, if you went heartbeat bear prehaps you could give them a football with it (as you said they want to play football with her when she's old enough, I know she won't be for a while but it's a cute idea).

There's other things like you could personalise cousin tshirts and babygrows on ebay and etsy.

As well as scanning places like etsy for new baby sister/brother you might be able to personalise this different again. But if you search new baby cousin, there are things on there.

Hope you find something.

lovebeingmum9 · 28/08/2019 13:32

Hi op and congratulations! it's lovely that your baby already has 2 cousins excited to meet and play with her! we're due 3rd of December so a month between us!
hope you don't mind my honesty but although the sentiment is lovely and really thoughtful....I really think the boys would prefer toys and things they could actually play with rather than a shared heartbeat teddy? you can get teddies online that wear a personalised tshirt 'to my big cousin ..... merry Christmas love from your new little cousin .....' and you could get them 1 each as they are reasonable or maybe find a cousin poem online to get printed and laminated for them to keep as well as a little scan pic in a cousin frame? when our baby is born he will have 7 cousins ranging from 3 months upto 18 and it's lovely.....but we have 3 children already and so will be buying them token bits from baby when he's born!

BeckyG86 · 28/08/2019 13:32

I love the idea of the football, thank you. I will look in to that one! I could even give that instead of a heartbeat bear. Definitely something to consider, thank you!

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BeckyG86 · 28/08/2019 14:57

Sorry, I think my message came through at the same time as yours so I missed it!

I don't mind honesty at all, and it was something I thought about if I am honest. I am thinking of the football each with a little note from their baby cousin (Argos have two for £7, so would be perfect for them) and we can get them a game or something else as a gift from us.

I am now thinking about a heartbeat bear for parents (possibly our two Nans as well but undecided) as their present as it would be about the price we would spend at Christmas.

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Drabarni · 28/08/2019 15:03

Is this a thing now? I thought people bought the baby a present, not the other way round Confused

SavoyCabbage · 28/08/2019 15:04

Ikea do soft footballs. Like a cuddly toy but a football. I happen to know you an adult can use a baby as a sort of cricket bat to whack a soft toy ball to a child.

BeckyG86 · 28/08/2019 15:37

It's just a nice thing for two very enthusiastic boys who are showing an interest in their future cousin. It's new for them, they are not used to babies in the family, not got any other cousins and unless we choose to have any more children in the future they are likely not to have anymore cousins and not really be around babies. The baby is not due until after Christmas but it's just a nice gesture for them. Found some footballs for two for £7, so £3.50 per child is not breaking the bank but something to make them feel more involved as well. Thank you for the idea.

We have decided on a heartbeat bear from us as a Christmas present for our parents and two Nans. They will really like those and it will mean a lot to them. That's the big presents sorted then!

Thank you!

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