Hi all, I'm almost 17 weeks and having family issues. I don't speak to my Dad or his side of the family. It's been 13 years and he has really shown he doesn't care and I feel I am better off out of it. My problem is my sister wants to tell them, regardless of the fact she hardly sees them. I said no and it's turned into an issue. I feel as I have nothing to do with them, it's none of their business. The last time they found I was expecting, they caused me no end of grief and upset and I was being gossiped about. I really mean they were nasty and I was hearing on the grape vine what they were saying. They were spiteful about me to my brother too. I feel as if they have no right to know and I know I would feel much better without that kind of upset again. I'm already dealing with a lot. Apparently, I am being unreasonable by not letting my sister tell them. Am i being unreasonable?