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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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rosie1998 · 10/08/2019 05:11

So the baby dad has left me at 6 months pregnant he's out drinking smoking weed and IV just found out he's seeing another chick . I seriously don't know how to deal with this ... Iv just reacted in a way I don't feel is right IV just been chilled . But I'm having sleepless nights worried about the baby and how I'm going to tell him this when he's older . Our relationship was toxic but I still have feeling for him is that normal . Is it normal that part off me loves him but part off me hates him ? I have 12 weeks left off my pregnancy .

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Starlight84 · 10/08/2019 08:04

Perfectly normal! My babies dad has said he wants nothing to do with us (currently 18+3) and I hate myself for still loving him because I do actually hate him! I’m sure over time they will go! Especially because I think I’m going to get some grief when my baby comes.

If that’s his priorities he’s best off out the way. You don’t need that and your baby certainly doesn’t. Don’t worry about what you will tell your baby in the future. That convo will be some time away yet. As I’ll be having to have a similar one!

Try to relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. Don’t let his childish antics spoil it for you and just let him get on with it. You do not want drugs or anything around your baby. Will only lead to further issues so stay strong and let him do what he has to do and you take care of you and your baby. Xx

BelulahBlanca · 10/08/2019 08:07

Cut him off. You and your baby do not need that in your life.

Wildorchidz · 10/08/2019 08:10

Make sure that he pays maintenance.

BelulahBlanca · 10/08/2019 10:09

He doesn’t need to be on the BC to pay.

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