My husband reluctantly agreed to baby #3, just found out I’m 6weeks pregnant with #4 both shell shocked and unsure of how we feel. Have a 5, 4 and 18 month old already. Who are absolutely amazing, big sis and bro are the MOST fantastically phenomenal little humans who dote on baby, all very happy children. I always wanted 4 but feel bad for him As he worries about the future and ‘what ifs’ a lot! He wants me to consider abortion but we’ve always been against this, but now it suits him he seems he could be fine with it! I’ve thought about it seriously for a minute and in reality couldn’t go through with it! We already have a 7 seater, have a decent size three bed (children would be x2 per room) and money is ok ish except we have work to do on our house and have a credit card to pay off. I’ve just started a business that’s doing great (work from home around kids) and could carry this on once baby is here! He says he doesn’t want the children to grow up feeling cramped (he seems to think everyone should have their own room wtf) He wants them to have a certain quality of life and not want for anything which I 100% understand and agree with. He also says what about when they are bigger and need more personal space, how does that work?I don’t have the answers he wants but know people do it an we are in a better position than most. He worries what if........ I lose my job (seems stable now but future who knows) or something bad happens, but you could go on forever like this with 1 child 2,3 or 4! My dilemma is do we abort and live a life of regrets (on my part) or deal with the fact life has other plans! I feel one of us isn’t going to be 100% happy with either way!!!!! Advice, kind words...... anything please I’m an emotional wreck!!!! 😢