Hi everyone, I am 31 weeks pregnant and couldn't be less phased or concerned by this pregnancy. I honestly don't think I have looked at a pregnancy app in about 12 weeks. I have no interest in how big the baby is, and I'm not obsessing about pregnancy symptoms at all. I haven't even thought about labour, whereas with my first I couldn't stop thinking about it from about 24 weeks onwards. I want to know if this is normal with your 2nd - don't get me wrong, I have decorated the nursery and picked out a few names with my husband but it doesn't feel like this pregnancy is the be all and end all of my world like the first did. My daughter is 15 months old and was completely unexpectedly born with major birth defects affecting her digestive system. She has had multiple surgeries and we have spent a lot of time in hospital. Although developmentally normal, she is tube fed and will have ongoing issues all her life. Am I feeling like this because of what I've been through with her, or is it normal to just feel less bothered when it isn't your first pregnancy? None of my friends have 2nd babies so I can't ask them. Thank you x