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Partner gone out on stag do

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catnaps1995 · 21/07/2019 00:51

Hey sorry my threads always seem to be negative but I promise you it's not always the case.
Anyway so I am currently 37 weeks pregnant (2 weeks and 3 days till my due date). My partner has gone on a stag do for 3 days. It's in England so he isn't too far away. I was originally ok with it as I was under the impression he wasn't drinking, then a few days before he told me he was going to drink...again I wasn't happy but there is a train station where he is going and first time labour usually takes a long time so I was just about ok with it.
I was ok with him going as long as he kept his phone on him at all times and he didn't go into any strip clubs (strip clubs are something I'm just not comfortable with in relationships).
So I get a text late evening saying he was leaving his phone at the hotel as he hasn't got any way of carrying it (they are wearing fancy dress). I'm really annoyed cause he didn't check with me if I was feeling any pains or anything. He didn't even give me a number to call or what hotel he is staying at. I wanted him to have his phone on him just in case I go into labour. It's unlikely but anything can happen in pregnancy. I'm also annoyed as he knew I wanted him to take his phone with him just in case. I am pretty laid back usually but just in case I wanted him to be available. If I was to go into labour now I wouldn't be able to contact him at all! Surely if he can go out and carry his money/card then he can find some way of carrying his phone??? I feel like he doesn't care about my feelings at all. I feel really let down. I don't even know how I can get past this. Am I being unreasonable? Sad

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catnaps1995 · 21/07/2019 08:46

Thanks everyone for replying!
I’m not/haven’t sent him a picture of a baby. I was joking when I said I thought it was a good idea. 😂 he has text me back (early hours of this morning) to apologise and he is usually responsible, supportive, can’t fault him most of the time. He was already on day 2 of the stag do so one more day and he’s back. I’m still annoyed but I also love him and that’s what I have told him.
I’m glad I am not the only one who would of been annoyed. It’s nice to have reassurance to see if you are being out of order or not.

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Gettingonabitnow · 21/07/2019 10:25

Glad it worked out ok.

You’re a better woman than I am with the photo 😂 in fact I’m going to use it if mine misbehaves approaching due date!

catnaps1995 · 21/07/2019 19:19

Gettingonabitnow - please post what happens if you do end up using it! 😂

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