For fun. Who brought up the subject of kids / idea was it.

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For me I had just ds. Never expected to meet someone else, blah blah. From very early on I got the feeling he wanted more kids he had one too
We never discussed it as such at first. I have fertility issues so irregular periods after a short. Time he kept saying ' it's been ages since an AF you pregnant? Whe I test and say no he was Dissapointed so We Got a referral and ended up with dd.
From early on into her life he kept saying Comments how he'd love another and working out finances etc. In a really. Sweet way
I was all set for getting married we had date set and then seeing about another referral. Then I found out I was pregnant. He was extatic but unfortunately mc. 4 weeks later I was preg again. Scan due tomorrow. He's. Like a puppy with excitement
I'm still shocked and in denial. As believed it would never happen without treatment. I cant believe it. But I am excited. But I think now this would be my last. He wants another haha. No chance. Although he would respect that 1000%

I'd been ready to start a family for a couple years longer than my DH. In the end it took one of his friends who had just had a baby to say something along the lines of "you do realise you will never feel truly ready for kids, right?" for him to jump on board. Only, he didn't discuss his change of mind with me, instead he decided last March (Mother's Day to be precise, no he didn't plan it) to surprise me by saying he didn't want to use a condom just as we were about to DTD. So you can imagine how confused I was at his sudden change of heart but happy nonetheless that we were starting to TTC :) Currently 11+5 with our first baby and can't wait for the dating scan next week!

I was desperate to have kids, my DP (now DH) wanted to "one day". He was very vague about when this would be. I was approaching my mid-30s and stressed. We considered splitting up. In the end he agreed and we started TTC when I was 35.

Me. If I didn't want kids, my OH would be equally as happy.

We discussed it very early on. Now DH was 11 years older than me, with a child from a previous relationship. For me marriage and kids was something I knew I wanted-as he had already done both I wanted to check I wasn’t wasting my time so we had the conversation a few months in before we got serious. We got married 4 1/2 years later and now have an 18 month old, expecting our second in December