31 weeks and feel like my marriage is falling apart

[Swan2019]

Third baby.
I’m exhausted from running around after my other two.
My hips are starting to go, I can’t sleep, I’m heavy, it’s hot...
My husband is never at home and when he is, he’s in a bad mood.
He doesn’t look after me at all. Just snaps at me and the children.
At the moment I’m sitting in a car park having had a row at 4am as I couldn’t lift the two year old back into her bed and he had to get up to do it.
I feel as though I just want him to leave. I don’t feel relaxed or secure around him at the moment. He’s mean to me. He makes fun of me.

I don’t have anyone else.

I have to give birth to this baby within the next ten weeks and I just don’t want him around.

Is this pregnancy hormones going mad, or have we added one strain too many?

I’m sorry to hear this bless you. Babies can add strain but that said he should be helping and supporting you. There’s no excuse for being mean to anyone either so his behaviour is totally uncalled for.

Do you have any family/friends that can help?

Maybe a frank talk with your husband about how you feel is needed?

I’m expecting my third and I’m on my own. It will be tough as having another section but I sure as well know I’d rather be on my own than with someone who is going to treat me bad and not support me xx

He sounds like a big lazy lump. You need a hand about the house with the kids. Have you sat down and spoke to him about how you feel

Mine was useless as well with young children and disturbed sleep.
He eventually got a bit better.
Can you ask him if he is not willing to do things, can he pay for someone to stay?