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Any "older" mums-to-be out there?

32 replies

Flopsy06 · 14/07/2019 15:45

Hi all! We've just found out were expecting again at 38/39! I didn't think I'd be doing this again so close to 40!! I'm going to be the oldest mum at every antenatal class, baby group etc going aren't I?? 😩
I'd really like to connect with other mums-to-be out there....any takers?

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Zag29 · 17/07/2019 15:37

I'm 36 and pregnant with my first, when I went to see my GP he just kept going on about me being an "older mum" - not helpful!

tisonlymeagain · 17/07/2019 16:24

Rude @Zag29 I am 40 next month and it's not been mentioned once so far. I suspect it will be at my consultant appointment at 16 weeks though.

PG2018 · 17/07/2019 16:31

Hi,
I'm 39 and 16 +2 with my second

NicciLovesSundays · 17/07/2019 16:45

@Zag29

I'm 36 and pregnant with my first, when I went to see my GP he just kept going on about me being an "older mum" - not helpful!

What type of things did he say? Are you thinking of making a complaint?

Megan2018 · 17/07/2019 16:46

You are hardly old!

I am 31+6 with my first at 41. Nowhere near the oldest at anything so far.

Zag29 · 17/07/2019 17:31

He mentioned the higher risks, and there would be additional tests and certain things to look out for - I think he was just trying to be helpful and give me the information that would help, it just scared me a bit and prompted more research on my part - I don't think i'd make a complaint, my friend who was my age when she had her first said her GP basically did the same, must just be our area!

NicciLovesSundays · 17/07/2019 17:39

I think the only additional test I have been offered is the amniocentesis and that is optional.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/Amniocentesis/

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