I was induced last year at 39+0 weeks.
I packed a bag for the hospital and left another one at home as I live less than 15 minutes walk away. I downloaded TV programs, had head phones, battery pack, charger, trashy magazines, lots of snacks and drinks. My DP knew where the local shops and takeaways where and their opening times. etc etc
My labour took under 10 hours and I delivered vaginally using TENS machine and gas and air. Didn't watch one TV program as we spent the first few hours on prenatal ward gassing to the woman and her companion through the curtain. I did spent about 30 minutes on a walk around the hospital grounds. Then I was moved to a labour room.
On the other hand someone else I know after trying to deliver for 48 hours ended up with a C-section.
Tips:
- You don't know how long or short it will be so just prepare yourself for the longest time. Your bag in hospital needs to be small so keep other bits in your car boot.
- You and your birthing partner still need to know bits of your birth plan
a. Students yes or no? (Unfortunately we didn't get any students)
b. Drugs you can't have for medical reasons.
c. Your position on vitamin K for the baby.
d. Positions to be in on the bed if you are lucky enough to give birth vaginally
The rest of your birth plan is rather pointless as apart from starting off being active if feasible as things unfold you will have to adapt to the situation. For example my DP did the skin-to-skin as I was being stitched up.
- Your birthing partner is your advocate and s/he must speak up for you when necessary and find staff when you request. They need to have a timing device so they can time contractions as you will be left on your own a lot unless you have a student with you.
- It will hurt. Though in my case I think going for a poo the days afterwards was more distressing. So when they tell you what laxatives to buy them all and try them out. Same about water bottles and peeing in the bath if necessary.
- If you want to breast feed you likely won't get any useful help in hospital. You may just get told off for being in the wrong position like I did (back story I can't be bothered to go into) or if you are lucky some yanking. So get basic advice before you go in e.g. NCT class, YouTube. Remember your milk won't come in for days.
- If your baby is crying don't be scared of either of you holding them.
You may not need anything strong than paracetamol as a painkiller.
I also threw up when just before I stared pushing. Due to all those programs I watched as a kid on birth I wasn't bothered.