My 20 week scan is this Thursday and all the way through I've been adamant about being team yellow, I found out with my DS, it was lovely to know and bond but just felt it would be nice to have a surprise this time. However! The closer I get to the scan, the more I change my mind! I have had some dreams of a girl (as well as everyone else being convinced) and although I'm genuinely not worried either way (I adore my DS), the curiosity is killing me! My DH originally wanted to know and now he is changing his mind every day as well!
One reason I'm not keen to know is because I really don't want the fuss, particularly if it IS a girl as it'll be the first in the family (3 boys so far), and also because I do think it'll be wonderful to know at delivery.....but I was also so zonked after DS that they could have told me anything and I wouldn't have registered it! Names aren't a problem as we have already chosen for both boy and girl (and definitely won't be revealing these before birth, regardless of if we find out or not!)
I'm not looking for anyone to make the decision for me, just after some different perspectives!
So what made you decide to find out or not?