Feeling extremely nervous

[vcampbell90]

So last year on the 30th of June I lost a little girl at 15 weeks and then 3 weeks ago I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant I never in my days thought I would be going through this again as this was not planned , but I don't think iv ever been so nervous in my life the closer it gets to the day I lost my little girl the more I'm panicking iv already had 2 scans and the midwifes have been amazing but every twinge , cramp soreness I freak out. Iv had no bleeding and horrendous morning sickness I'm trying not to stress but it's so hard does this get any easier ? I truly belive in wots meant to be will be but I'm so paranoid

I think once you’ve experienced a loss, it’s hard to relax in subsequent pregnancies. I had a MC last year and now every little twinge, ache, sensation I get I think the worst. Goodness knows how many bathroom checks I do a day... it’s really consuming and exhausting. I wish I could be one of those people who goes with the flow and says “what will be will be” but I’m not one of those people. Just to let you know you’re not alone and all these feelings are completely normal.
I’m having counselling at the moment, so please seek help if you feel you need additional support xx

I think it's only natural to be cautious in pregnancy after a loss. I lost my last pregnancy at 8 weeks and I'm pregnant again but currently only 5+5. Every time I go to the loo I'm expecting blood and the odd twinge does make me think the worst but I try my hardest not to stress over it and pray that we don't have a repeat of last time. Congratulations btw :)

Hi i lost a little girl at 20wks im on baby no4 since losing her & im still the same worrying over every little thing,im lucky i get a scan every month so that kinda helps.im now 18wks with this baby. Your midwife will help u if u feel u need to talk about your worries or mums on here will be here to help. Ive had alot of pain but my baby is fine.try not to worry.congratulations on your pregnancy x