Hi Ladies, I want your opinion please. I'm 37 years old I have a son who is 5 months l, just found out I'm pregnant again only 5 weeks. The issue me and my husbend we have major problems we separated for a while and we are talking about divorce before I found out I'm pregnant. Just the last months I been trying to stand on my own feet such as losing baby weight and going back to work part time. The news of my pregnancy is shocking I want the baby because I dont want want my son to grow up alone at the same time I scared I'll not be able to manage with 2 small children alone. My ex does not want the baby because of the problems we have in the relationship he things it will be really hard and he is against it , but is my choice I know...
I have always worked I miss working I can't afford child care my job doesn't pay well so that's not an option having another baby will mean it will take me longer to go back to work. The father helps financially but I think this arrangement will end if we divorce. The reason we are not getting along is because we are totally different personalities, we have nothing in common he is traditional and religious were I'm an atheist. I feel the love has gone I dont feel he has any feelings for me we dont agree on most things i know is not right to bring a baby to this.