I just recently joined Mumsnet, and I am just looking for outside opinions. Just a little background information about my situation. I am currently married and we have one child together. As of now, we both work. However, my husband is unhappy at his job, and wants to quit to pursue another career field. My husband has made it very known that he does not want anymore children. We currently live in a one-bedroom apartment and though we may be doing better than most, we are by no means “financially set”. We make enough to pay the bills and buy necessities. I recently discovered I was pregnant, and my husband assumed I would just get an abortion. His reasons were valid (it would be a lot to handle financially, and he is afraid he will emotionally/mentally checked out). I, however, have already bonded with the baby and am quite excited, but his feelings have started to over shadow it. At one point, he told me our relationship would be over and he wouldn’t be very comforting while I went through the pregnancy. I was a wreck. Eventually, I told him I wanted to keep the baby still and he, in so many words, told me he would just deal with it. However, he has still been saying things that make it obvious he still wants me to get an abortion. At first, he was willing to stay at his job and continue working, now he wants to quit in 2 weeks. I’m just really overwhelmed and at this point, I know our marriage is basically over. I just am torn between keeping the baby or aborting. I know it would be tough to have a baby, financially, especially since he now wants to quit and leave me financially responsible for everything. But at the same time, I really want the baby. I already have a child and I love her dearly, and having another child would not affect that for me. However, my husband makes comments that make me feel like he would emotionally become distant from both kids. He is so afraid of just being a working dad and not having time for himself and is continually sharing his fears of ending up like other men that he sees struggling with multiple children. Any advice is appreciated.