This is my second pregnancy, I'm full of anxiety. I've been struggling with my mental health again but the prescription I was given seems to be helping now. Unfortunately it hasn't made my Mother and MIL any more tolerable. They are both annoying me greatly and daily.
Due to an inherited condition affecting pregnancy we won't know if our baby is healthy and will live or not until after we get CVS testing done. This condition is known to both of them and one of them was affected by it as well, both have had miscarriages, yet they are acting like the baby is a done deal, time to celebrate. 
We're not even celebrating yet, so what gives them the right to? Time to celebrate is when they tell us our baby is definitely healthy, it's not celebration time when I worry every time I go to the bathroom I'll see bright red blood and that will be the beginning of the end.
Talking to them about how I feel won't actually help, one of them won't get it and if the other one didn't learn from her own experience then nothing I say will change her.
Everything they say grates on me right now, maybe it's hormones? I can't be the only one feeling this way though, just a quiet urge to tell their Mum or MIL to STFU. 