Am I wrong for felling hurt

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So basically I'm 10 weeks pregnant and my child's father who I live with I barley go out cause I have 2 other children and we do a lot as a family his mum wants a dna test done because of bad relationship in the past he was told his a dad an ended up not being so yes I understand she would like a dna but I just feel abit crappy about it as I'm not the same girl and then today we had a scan and on the way home the baby's dad said I won't to keep all receipts for what he buys for the baby so it u feels to me his unsure aswel his told me his not but why keep the receipts like he did before for the other baby as was unsure if he was the dad so he could get his money back he tells me he nose his the dad but wants to anyways I just feel poo so I think I just needed a rant

his mum wants a dna test done

And who's she to tell you what to do??? It's not HER baby! Why is her son doing what SHE says like a little boy?? I'd be very upset about this and I personally would not see that cow at all!

Your partner sounds mean and wimpy too.

I would say "Fine, have the DNA test but there's no relationship...because you don't trust me and where there' no trust there's no relationship"

Call his bluff. The bastard.

She wonts one because of the past I just feel abit hurt that I'm being compared to the last girl but they can see I'm not like that and I just don't no what todo I'm angry but no matter what I say it's just well that's what she wants todo no one sees my point in this

But your past is none of her business!

It's between you and your partner. He's an adult and his first duty is with you...not his Mother.

It's really, truly not normal and not acceptable that the Father of your child claims that his Mother wants a DNA test and expects you to do it!

Tell him to fuck off.

Its not my past that's the problem it's his with an ex

Op please leave him and his family and walk away. The cms will arrange dna testing when they claim you financial support.
He will never be on your side.

He has made his loyalties very clear already.

Well if he’s had the wool pulled over his eyes, being told he’s a father when the baby was another man’s, I think it’s understandable that he would feel wary. His mother would also have an invested interested in making sure the baby was her son’s as I’m sure she witnessed the pain and anger he went through before.

I understand why this would make you feel a bit bruised OP, of course.

But I wouldn’t tell either of them to fuck off. He’s been duped and made an ass of and he’s scared.

It could have been done nicely my ex was told he couldnt have kids then I got pregnant I told them they could get a DNA test if they wanted they were fine yo my face but when ds was born they bought pictures of him as a baby to compare 🤔 they still wouldn't do the DNA though and he is ten now

I'm not just gonna leave him cause of this I do get why I just feel really hurt by it the family was very involved with the baby before they new it wasn't his so I do get it I just needed somewhere to moan to as I don't have no one to moan about this to sorry guys

have you ever cheated on him? I honestly would never speak to my mother in law again if she ever suggested that to my partner and if my partner was going to have his head up his mums a×× he would get shown the door! ridiculous they sound nasty!

Nope never cheated on him are relationship is really good