Help!

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Help. I’m currently 13 weeks 6days. I had a scan at 11 weeks 2 days with a due date of 30th October . At that time I thought I was only around 8/9 weeks. I split with my partner and I had sex with my 1st child’s dad on 6th February. My LMP (last menstrual period) was around 21st January but I’m not 100% sure and it was only a 3 day period. I had sex with my current partner everyday on the weekend of 25th January. The person that did my scan says I was too far gone for my 1st child’s dad to be the father (the person I had sex with on the 6th February) But when I work out my conception date it comes up with dates from 4th feb to 8th feb. I so confused and scared I really don’t know what to do.

Hi sorry you are feeling stressed by this :-(
I guess it depends on your normal cycle length and when you normally ovulate. Weekend of 25th seems v early on but that can be normal for people ovulating pretty much immediately after LMP.
My Jan cycle was same as yours & I didn't ovulate until w/c 4.02 with a regular 28 day cycle. ( Its not an exact science but was doing the ov kits)
The due dates given at dating scans can end up weeks out. The only way for peace of mind is to do a paternity test I guess? Hope you have support.

Thank you for your reply. I actually started my period about 16th January but I took tablets to stop this due to my
Partner been away for two weeks so didn’t want to be on my period. Then I had a 3 day very light bleed starting 21st January. Very confused. I will know when baby is born who the dad is due to the person I had sex with on 6th been Jamaican. I just need to know before as my current partner is been very supportive but obviously if he knew the truth that would be a complete different story 😭

Oh no :-(
Ultimately I think it best to be honest with current partner. It may eat away at you otherwise making the pregnancy stressful & he may pick up on it later down line. Imagine he will feel very betrayed finding out at the birth. Potentially the baby is his & you have some issues to work through, which are not insurmountable for the sake of a happy family life going forward.