First time mum

[SJ1997]

Hi all, I'm new to Mumsnet, I found out I'm pregnant last week, only 8 weeks, I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, I've told my partner, we're both over the moon, however the anxiety is getting the better of me, I haven't told my mum yet, who I am very close to, I know she'll be over the moon but I'm terrified when others find out I'll be judged and looked down on, I'm 21, 22 in September, I feel ready, however I can't shift the feeling of people thinking the worst of me. I'm worried about everything, especially leaving my work for a bit when the time comes. I don't feel like I'm coping to well, someone to talk to or some tips would work wonders.

Sorry to dump my thoughts on you all x

My daughters the same age. And is 19weeks pregnant, she and her partner work hard and are relatively secure( although I guest you never know ) but I am delighted for her .
People will always judge , just be confident in your decision , it's one only you will know is right , I am sure you will make a fab parents .

Thank you @paranoiamumma I'm a sucker for letting people get the better of me and listening to what the have to say. I'm over the moon and I know we'll be great, especially my partner, the way he is with his new born nephew amazes me everyday. I'm hoping it's just the emotions and I'll get my head around it soon xx

If it was me too would try not to think
Too far ahead , every time you think of maternity leave , just say to your self I will worry about that nearer the time , -!: Focus on the things that you can deal with now. , like your first booking appointment etc hopefully that will Help with the worry.
As for leaving work it will be fine , you'll be surprised on how quick you will snap back into it.

When you have a midwife appointment mention to her your anxiety's .

L

@paranoiamumma Thankyou, I was thinking that, that maybe I can explain how I'm feeling to thee midwife, I just don't want to feel like a burden! I'm my own worst enemy, I will take everything one step at a time, Thankyou for the reassurance! X