Pregnant or not? Panicking.

[Paranoid17]

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Would never normally do this but panicking!!! Is this positive?? I'm on the pill. This is 2 different tests, only poundland ones as didn't wanna spend out on a clearblue as just thought I was being paranoid.

You dont need more tests OP, that is a clear postitive

Thank you to all asking if I'm ok.

It is ok to say no. No more babies were planned. I had bad postnatal depression last time with a baby who had very bad reflux and woke up every hour through the night for 18 months! He's nearly 5 and still doesn't sleep through and is also on the autism pathway under a paediatrician. I also have 2 older children, one with special needs.

I don't think I could cope with another child.

Sorry that was rather dreary!

Not at all. It's life.

Unexpected pregnancies happen. You have to do what's best for you and your family.

Have you told your partner yet?

Completely understandable. I hope you have some good support from family and friends as you must feel quite shocked and upset right now.

For different reasons I would not feel ok about a pregnancy if it happened tomorrow so it is completely fine to say you're not ok about it.

Best of luck OP