Maybe this is the wrong place to put this but I need to vent.
My partner and I got pregnant after two months of seeing each other, I knew him as a friend beforehand but I considered him self-centred, we both went through horrible break ups and he was really there for me, but during pregnancy the first three months I was viciously sick and we fought constantly, asking him to make me a cup of tea was meet with "I'm busy blah blah blah",! The following three months were marked by bad hormones, plus he left his job to start his own business and he's had a shit tonne of stress, he mostly won't listen to me and just heeds what my mom says (We live with my parents) so much so he told her he wished I could talk to him like she does!
He's hopeless with money, I've been trying to get baby stuff sorted since after Christmas while he's away buying fucking equipment for his business becasue thats apparently how he's going to make money I've been hearing this excuse from 12 weeks! He expects that someone will just loan him the money for baby stuff, I've ended up buying most of it myself, he gives me money when he has it but also loans money from me and doesn't pay it back, when things are tight everything is 90% on me. He can go and have few drinks I can't even go and get my nails done. I've come to a place where I lie to him just hang on to what I have. I cook for him, do laundry and clean the house, things he only does when The moon is BLUE. Not to mention my parents won't tidy after themselves either! I'm an almost 8 month pregnant slave.
What really really hurts is my bff is around 18 weeks with her frist baby also and her partner treats her like a queen! While mine isn't mean at heart but is just so selfish. I'm fed up and thought that I'd be treated better instead no one gives a fuck and feel so unloved, I have to bring my little baby into this bullshit, it's like I'm the only adult in this situation.