My bf is really mood over like small things even all the time.. its really annoying .. my emotional energy is always spent on him/making him feel better, comforting him and babying him and I’m so tired of it...
For example, today he was gonna go to the bank that’s like an hour away (we moved and he still hasn’t switched banks in the 5/6 months we’ve been here) but then he realized it’s sunday and they’re closed and he got all aggressive and through something on the table angrily. He’s so moody like I can’t stand it.
Through my whole pregnancy; I have been trying to comfort him and make him feel bad and god forbid I have a bad day, I have no one to comfort me because his day was worse
He keeps talking about how he really hopes I don’t go into labor during the night or at a time he’s sleeping or tired so he doesn’t have to drive and all this and I’m like yeah I hope I don’t either because I have to either push a baby out of me or get major surgery. Like I imagine when I go into labor I’ll be comforting him for how tired he is..
I have really bad leg pain the past 2+ weeks and it’s gotten so bad thar I limp/struggle to walk. Someone yelled at me yesterday to walk fast when I was crossing the street :( I’m 38 weeks now due March 30 and be hasn’t helped with anything, still expects me to do everything like housework, picking food up, blah blah,
I have so much laundry and cleaning to do still and he also like leaves trash around that I have to go around and pick up, water bottles on the floor I have to pick up when I can’t bend over.. I didn’t pick up his trash for a few days to see if he would, but there was a half drunken smoothie on the table
For like four days etc. he drops stuff like socks on the floor in the living room and doesnt pick it up.. when I can’t bend over! It’s like he has no undersranding or care for me. I’m so tired of doing everything. I don’t want a c section because I’m so scare he won’t take care of me and expect me to still do everything.
His moodiness and anger makes me never wanna be around him becaus I don’t xonsrnstly feel like emotionally
Making him feel better when I’m about to go into labor and of forbjd a week be about me for once?
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