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Baby has Down’s Syndrome

9 replies

Blessedagain · 09/03/2019 09:24

Hi all, I am 42 and 11 weeks and 6 days pregnant. I found out on Thursday that my baby has Down’s Syndrome. There is no doubt that we love this baby and we aren’t even considering other “options”. Definitely not looking for sympathy but I am looking for other people who are in the same situation so I can be part of a support network. If there is anyone out there who can signpost me I would be really grateful.

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woolduvet · 09/03/2019 09:52

Have a look on Facebook. I follow a wonderful family who's eldest has ds.
Don't be sorry is their page.
She does a lot of work educating the medical community.

GregoryPeckingDuck · 09/03/2019 09:59

Congratulations! I would suggest looking in your wider social circle as well dor opportunuties to get to know other parents with children who have Down’s syndrome that are slightly older. When I was a new parent I really appreciated the advice and reassurance I got from parents who had older children and had been there and done that.

NameChange30 · 09/03/2019 10:03

Congratulations! Is this your first baby?
You might find this helpful:
www.downs-syndrome.org.uk/?wpdmdl=1385&ind=0

Parent19876 · 09/03/2019 10:11

Congratulations!
I was a support worker for young adults with learning disabilities, with a focus on downs. Still to this day they remain my favorite people and i am so thankful to have them in my life.
What a journey of a lifetime you're embarking on!

curliegirlie · 09/03/2019 12:29

Huge congratulations! If you’re on Facebook, request to join the Future of Downs group, it’s an amazing, supportive community. There’s also a FOD pregnancy group, which you should have a search for (if you can’t find it, I can’t remember if it’s secret or not, do a search in the main Future of Downs group and you’ll find a few threads about it).

The Down’s Syndrome Association website has a list of local groups so you can find out what support groups and charities are active in your area. Here in Bucks we have Sparkles (www.sparkles.org.uk) which provides speech therapy, physio and occupational therapy to pre-schoolers with Down’s Syndrome in and around Buckinghamshire (basically anyone who can make it to the the sessions in High Wycombe and Aylesbury).

Also have a look at the Positive About Down’s Syndrome website, as they’ve got some great stories from families.

Finally, my daughter Cara is involved in a brilliant photography project #DownRightAmazing (www.downrightamazing.co.uk). We are releasing a photo portrait a day in the run up to World Downs Syndrome Day on 21st March. Take a look at our FB group!

Welcome to the club. It’s a journey none of us expected, but a pretty amazing one!

My daughter is 3 and a half, doing brilliantly, no health problems, learnt to walk about a year ago, has over 100 Makaton signs and loads of words 😊

Baby has Down’s Syndrome
legalseagull · 10/03/2019 09:17

I know everyone saying congratulations means well, but please don't feel like you're not allowed to grieve for the baby you expected. It's a massive shock and you're allowed to be upset. It doesn't mean you won't adore your baby or be the best mother x

Blessedagain · 11/03/2019 09:56

Thank you all for your messages.

Curliegirlie your daughter is beautiful. The photographs on the website are wonderful too.

I discovered the Holland poem too which helped me gain some perspective.

Legalseagull don’t worry there has been plenty of tears. But ultimately I know everything is going to be better than I fear!

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legalseagull · 11/03/2019 16:26

You have an amazing attitude Op xx

Notonaschoolnight · 11/03/2019 16:41

Oh Blessed again as a mum to a 15 year old daughter with Downs I totally agree with what the other posters have said be upset feel sorry for yourself etc etc but honest to god your soon going to meet the most amazing person you’ll ever know

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