I'm pregnant with my second DC. DS was a planned home birth but ended up a emergency section due to fetal distress (his head was in a bad position and I was not dilating despite having regular contractions for 48 hours).
Due to a genetic condition, I have been advised that this time around they wouldn't use forceps, ventouse or scalp monitoring, and due to my previous section they wouldn't induce me. So I feel I have 2 options - and elective section or a totally intervention free vaginal birth. Obviously vaginal birth is safer and has generally better outcomes for both mum and baby.
However, if I were to give birth in the labour ward I would be totally consultant led and heavily monitored. I know that in that circumstance I'm not going to get my best chance of labouring naturally and it feels like I'd be setting myself up to fail and I might as well just go for the elective...
So I feel that going for a home birth gives me the best chance of being intervention free. That obviously carries it's own risks, although the likelyhood of needing a hospital transfer due to scar rupture is less than needing to be transfered for other (non previous C section) reasons... obviously the consequences if something did go wrong are much worse if I am at home (FWIW - we are a 20 minute drive from the hospital, last time I was in hospital within 30mins of calling the ambulance)
Part of me says it isn't worth the risk and I should just go for the elective section.... but then I feel like I would very much like the oportunity to give birth naturally, and if it all goes to plan it would be the best option for both me and baby.
Obviously the consultant has strongly advised against homebirth, but my midwifery team are happy for me to have one, and I have a friend who is an ex midwife who will be my doula, so I feel well supported and in the best hands if I were to choose a homebirth.
But is it worth the risk????