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Pregnancy

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Older mums

19 replies

Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 18:44

My daughter constantly calls me an older Mum and never lets me forget it. I was pregnant at 28 and had her at 29.

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physicskate · 05/03/2019 19:44

I'm afraid your daughter is deluded... how old is she? To a 10 year old, late 20s would seem 'old'. Have you looked at average ages for first time mothers in the uk?

Oysterbabe · 05/03/2019 19:45
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Makinglists · 05/03/2019 19:54

old, old !!, blimey don't know what your daughter would make of me -| was 36 when I had Ds1 and 41 with DS2 (and yes I did get mistaken for his grandma). In my book over 45 is an older mother.

Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 20:00

I agree. I had my 1st at 19 and her at just 29 but she consistently tells me I am an older Mother. Quite annoying.

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Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 20:04

She's 29 sorry forget to put her age

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Jackshouse · 05/03/2019 20:05

Medically over 35 is considered to be an older mother.

PolarBearDisguisedAsAPenguin · 05/03/2019 20:07

Three decades ago you probably were an older mother but times have changed and you wouldn’t be considered one now.

Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 20:11

Thanks.

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allfurcoatnoknickers · 05/03/2019 20:12

I'm 32...and I think the youngest person I know who's had a baby was 29?! Most of my friends had kids in their 30s.

WoahThereMama · 05/03/2019 20:16

I’d consider 29 to be quite a young mum. As she is also 29, does she have any kids? If so, what age did she have them at?

Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 20:18

Exactly seems the average now, I'm quite fit and healthy but just get a lot of criticism from her for being an older Mum! Drives me insane !

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Mumof1andacat · 05/03/2019 20:20

My mum had me at 30. I'm 34 and mum will be 65 this year. She is not old. A lot of my friends mum's are 60 or a bit over. My dear mum in law if still alive would be 63 this year. I has ds at 28. Looks like I will be ancient too when ds is grown up!

Rozy02 · 05/03/2019 20:21

She's 29 herself two kids 9and 4. Two of her mates just had kids at 30. Sorry forgot to put it in before.

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Magpie1976 · 05/03/2019 20:31

Had a baby last year at 41. Always feel old when go to baby groups. But certainly didn't 10 years ago when had dd1

WiseBlankie · 05/03/2019 21:01

Weird attempt at trolling?

PBobs · 05/03/2019 21:37

Either this is trolling or the weirdest stealth boast I've ever read.

Rememberallball · 05/03/2019 21:51

Pregnant with IVF twins at 47 here (will be 3 months off 48 when they arrive) - you should ask her what her description of me would be!!

P.S. - I’m already expecting to be called geriatric by medical professionals so she can’t insult me with her answer!!

notacooldad · 05/03/2019 22:02

I’d consider 29 to be quite a young mum
I wouldn't but I think that is down to local demographics and what I used to seeing and dealing with through work.

TwoRoundabouts · 05/03/2019 22:59

My mum had me at 43, I had my DD when I was 43 and my sister had her DC at 45. My mum had friends who had children in their late 40s and I had friends at school whose mothers had children at 47-49. However it's only my sister and me who are weird as we only have one child.

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