Hi Bozzy, just seen this, amazing how many times this subject comes up tbh.
Anyway, hope your friend is okay. I've got a friend going through the same thing, she has 1 in 25 chance and she's 37yrs old.
I'm one of the mums on MN whose little girl has DS. Like all the other mums whose child has DS I am VERY happy to talk with you and your friend, either here, by personal email or either of you can call me at home, just ask.
Although if you do be prepared for a really gushy mum, full of how great her little girl is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously though, she is great! She's 3 at Xmas, doing really well and bringing HUGE amounts of joy into everyones lives. I know DS seems scary and everyone feels differently about these things but it really isn't so bad you know.
Lottie makes us laugh, without fail, every day, and I really mean that, she is SO funny and such great company. The little things that she accomplishes bring cause for great celebrations and at teh end of the day she'll grow up into a wonderful woman with a wonderful happy life and touch the hearts of all those she meets, I know she will. The world is a richer place with her in it.
I just wanted to share that with you to reassure you, and to pass onto your friend if and when you feel the need.
If there is Aanythig I can do, ANYTHING, just say. If you want to talk, or your friend does, or either of yu want to meet me and Lottie, then I'm here, we're both here.
Lots of love to you and to your friend.
TC x