I have just found out I’m pregnant, and my husband really doesnt want the child. We discussed it and I did at first decide to abort the baby but after looking deeper I realised the only reason I was doing it, was for him. I told him I couldn’t do it and gave him the option to leave if he wanted. He doesn’t know what he’s going to do. We have 3 other children who are 18, 14 and 12. My youngest two don’t live with us as I suffered from post natal depression.. and I think this is a huge factor for him, which I understand, but I just don’t know what to do. I really can’t terminate the pregnancy, he hasn’t left the family home as of yet but I really need to know where I stand so I can start making plans for the future. I just really need some advice