I could scream!!! Bit of a back round story. Basically it's our first baby in our late 20s. We have both enjoyed being quite wild over the years and like a night out. Obviously for me that has stopped due to being pregnant. I've been very open minded about not taking my other halfs freedom away and understand it's completely different for him. He just can't say no to a night out 😐😐 he had 4 Christmas nights out and 3 of them stayed out all night at his friends as I can't be bothered with him when I'm sober/hormonal and he's drunk. He also got very drunk on Christmas day but what can you say it's Christmas I suppose it's "allowed" and for new year we arranged to have our group of friends over to bring in the bells as I wasn't feeling up to going out!! And surprise surprise he got so wasted I spent most of the night looking like a controlling cow taking drinks out of his hand whilst he was slumped on the couch which was mortifying as no one else was even that drunk 😡😡 so anyway before new years we had agreed that as I'm close to my due date (end of feb) and have had complications that he won't be drinking just incase something happens as I need to have an elective section and the last thing i want is to be rushed in for and emergency one and him be out partying somewhere!!! Anyway his best friend (who is in his 40s single and no children) keeps making digs at him asking if "I'll let him have a drink or go out with the boys" which makes me fuming! Like how disrespectful!!! Now he's decided that he's off for another night spent away drinking and watching the football whilst I'm left in the house myself. And I know I'm probably very needy just now but he's making out as if he's hard done by because he's not had time to let steam off since new year etc and that I'm a joke and controlling. I totally understand he has a very stressful job and works over 50hrs a week but I just don't think he realises we are actually having a BABY!!! He can't just piss off for a full night and most of the next day to get steaming with his friends whenever he feels like it! I'm starting to think he has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol 😭 I'm sat here in bed crying probably being a bit OTT over everything and i just can't understand why he can't sacrifice one thing! I've sacrificed my physical and mental health during this pregnancy not to mention my career as I've had to take sick leave since 27 weeks due to being so poorly and terrible pregnancy complications 😭 I think he just thinks I sit in all day doing nothing and moaning!