Birthing Fears!

[AnnieCat84]

I'm hoping for some reassurance. My midwife has already told me I am worrying about this way too early on and need to relax but I'm finding it very hard!
I'm only 15 weeks pregnant but terrified at the thought of giving birth already. I'm worried about possible complications, pain, tearing, blood loss, anything! You name it - I'm worrying about it! I've even considered the thought of an elective C Section but that terrifies me even more.

This is my first baby and I'm just looking for some reassurance and maybe some positive stories. A few people have asked me why my birth plan is! I think it's way to early to decide but then I have no idea what's going to be right for me. I do suffer from anxiety so I understand that's not helping - but not quite sure where to go next! I want to be able to enjoy my pregnancy without stressing about the inevitable.

Thanks

birth is a really different experience for each woman but the reality for most women is that they do experience pain, blood loss, tearing etc as it’s just part and parcel of a natural birth but it really varies from woman to woman and unfortunately you won’t know how it is for you until you get there. It might not be anywhere as bad as your imagining!

That being said, due to your anxiety I would plan for an induction and early epidural. That way you will know when your baby is coming and you’ll have the most effective pain management sorted. Hopefully this will help you to feel calm and in control of the situation.