Do I tell him?

[lizzylulu]

So me and my partner broke up and I fell pregnant. Unfortunately the timing means that it could be my ex partners or some guy that I slept with after (I know stupid to sleep with two people so close). I asked the other guy if when the baby was born he would mind doing a dna test and he kicked off saying he didn't want to know if the babies his or not. My ex partner and I have agreed to do the test between us as he is very understanding of the situation. If it comes back it's the other guys do I tell him or just never mention it?

Of course you tell him. He's irresponsible to not wrap up. It's his responsibility too.

Firstly. Do NOT get back with your Ex partner. He’s an Ex for a reason!

Secondly, you’re hardly the first to sleep with two men close together, stop worrying about that.

Some will say you should tell him and claim CSM, or that he has a right to know or the child has a right to have contact with it’s father. Personally, I wouldn’t tell him. He’s told you he doesn’t want to know. I would FAR rather parent alone than have this douche bag in our lives.