First time poster here... I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby.
Bit of background first - I was referred to have consultant led care at my 12 week booking appointment as my BMI was 32 which apparently classes me as OBESE eventhough I'm a solid size 14 haha.
I haven't had any major pregnancy problems apart from hyperemesis which is managed with medication and being anaemic which is also managed with iron tablets.
I find the consultant appointments SO useless. They are literally like 5 mins long and he asks me a few generic questions about how I'm feeling jots down some notes and sends me on my way. I also see the midwife who does the same thing - I think because she's leaving it to the consultant.
I feel like my care has been quite laidback and I'm not being checked properly.. I've never been weighed since my booking appt, my belly has never been measured. The consultant didn't even spot that my haemoglobin was super low in my last blood test. I had to book an appointment with my GP because I was so exhausted and it was him that said I was anaemic. My next appt is at 35 weeks and I feel that's ages to wait without an appointment. No appointment from 28 weeks to 35??
Is this normal? Am I expecting too much? I feel like asking to not to be consultant led anymore as I feel the midwife and the consultant are both just leaving it to each other to check me when neither are checking me!
Any advice??