Hi all, I’m really in need of a hand hold and some success stories of women who have successfully had a baby after 2 consecutive miscarriages.
I had my 1st miscarriage in December 2016 then my 2nd in February 2017. Both times I conceived the first month trying but both pregnancies ended in the 6th week. With both I had sore boobs, extreme fatigue and lots of cramping. Then suddeny the sore boobs and fatigue vanished but the cramping got a lot worse until a day or so later I lost the pregnancies. After the 2nd loss we didn’t try again for a while as I wasn’t emotionally ready. We decided to try again this summer and after 6 months of TTC we finally got a BFP last week. For the first day or 2 after BFP my boobs looked huge and felt really sore and I felt absolutely drained. But a week later on and my boobs only feel ever so slightly sore and look/feel smaller and I’m not having any fatigue. I’ve had mild cramping which started a couple of days before I got the BFP and is on and off throughout the day. The cramps are about the same as mild period cramps (I had the same type of mild cramping most days with the first 2 pregnancies).
I know that it’s a 1% chance of having 3 miscarriages in a row, but it was a 2% of having 2 in a row and that happened so I’m really worried. I know that having 2 previous miscarriages puts me at a higher risk of having a 3rd. I also have a short luteal phase, endometriosis and I’m over 30... all factors that apparently raise the risk of miscarriage.
I’m currently 4+2, which I know is really early for symptoms but I’m worried because the symtoms i had last week have all but gone this week.
So my question is this... is there anyone out there who had 2 consecutive miscarriages and went on to have a successful pregnancy, and if so what differences did you feel in the early weeks (if any)? Any replies would mean so much as I’m going out of my mind with worry 