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Pregnant and Confused HELP :(

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DeeDCx · 13/12/2018 16:50

I feel really bad posting this but I feel can’t speak to anyone else about it until I’m 100% within myself.

I took a pregnancy test today and it turns out I’m pregnant, usually people feel happiness and excitement. But I didn’t, I felt nothing. If there was any emotion involved it was a feeling of not wanting this.

Now I know that sounds so terrible :( and that’s why I’m here.. Has anyone felt this before but gone through with it and it’s got better? I don’t want to feel or think like this and I hope it stops but at the moment I do!

I have 2 young children already a 18 month old and a 3 year old. I’ve been with my partner for years but I haven’t told him yet. I don’t really know what to say or do?

I feel horrible for feeling like this?
No abuse please just advice!
Thank you

OP posts:
nowifi · 13/12/2018 17:06

I think it's quite a normal feeling and a lot of people have felt the same! You have 2 small children already so you've got a lot on your plate! There is such a thing as antenatal depression, I had this at the start of my pg but it did ware off luckily.

Hope you're okay Flowers

Courtneybrown · 13/12/2018 19:31

I had this with all of my Pregnancys even my planned ones i think its fear of the unkown will they cope etc im 25 weeks with my fourth technically fifth as i had a chemical but theres still days i think oh shoot ... once your baby is here that melts away xx

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