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Pregnant 6 months after abortion

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StayinggUnknown · 06/12/2018 14:32

Hello, sorry if this is not the correct place to ask this i just do not know were else to go. :(

I have just found out today that i am pregnant, i previously had an abortion 6 months ago and both me and my partner were pressure into one from our family's. neither of us wanted to go through with the abortion but as we were both still living at home we felt we had no other choice. we now live together in a one bedroom flat and i just about scrapping by money wise. we have been very careful about not getting pregnant. i have been tracking my cycle religiously and been taking my pill everyday within a half hour window. we have also only just began not using the pull out method also (sorry if tmi).

Now here's the part were i messed up. the week before last my entire family met up for a get together and i was very emotional and depressed as my family was talking about my cousin (who is older then me) having just given birth to a baby boy. because of this (my mind being a complete mess) i completely forgot about taking my pill (im on Cerazette). i then stayed at my mothers over night and did not return back home till the following evening, still not having even thought about it. My partner and i ended up having intercourse that night and did not use the pull out method. it was not till i was getting ready for bed that i even remembered. i feel so horrible as now i am pregnant (i took a test this morning) and have no idea how to tell my partner when we have been being so careful!

i worry he will be angry and i'm terrified he will want me to have another abortion as we don't have a lot of money etc. i just know in my heart i cannot go through that again. im so terrified, im only 22 :'(

please no judgment! i just really need some help as to how best to tell him.

Thankyou x

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Yakadee · 06/12/2018 14:54

Sorry you're having a tough time op. I think you just need to tell him as this isn't going to go away and I imagine you'll feel better once you've spoken to him.

I hope you sort everything out x

StayinggUnknown · 06/12/2018 15:44

sorry just realized i have put my date down wrong here, it wasnt the week before last i was at my mums and this happened (i go round my mums every weekend and sometimes stay the night) the incident i was referring to was over a month ago. Ive calculated i would be roughly 4-5 weeks pregnant so still very early.

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StayinggUnknown · 06/12/2018 15:45

Thankyou Yakadee,

Im just so scared. i cannot do this on my own :(

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Yakadee · 06/12/2018 17:53

You'd be amazed what you can achieve if it's what you want. I hope you figure everything out xx

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