Bleeding at 14+2

[BramRang]

Bleeding at 14+2 as title says. Going to hospital when my dad gets home to take me. Only had first scan two days ago and everything was fine. It's been a lot of blood and cramping. I've had a miscarriage before albeit earlier on in pregnancy and it feels like that. Just need a hand hold honestly as my partner is abroad and parents are babysitting my nephew out of the house. Don't want to call DP as he has work in the morning and it's already 2.30am for him. I just don't know what to do. Is it even worth going to A&E? I don't want to waste their time if it's already over

I'm here. Please go to the a&e. Call your dad. You should be with someone. I am so sorry. I know how this feels.

Please go to a&e! I'm so so sorry that you're going through this.
I truly hope that everything is ok.
Xxxxx

Rachelle thanks for the reply. He's on his way over, shouldn't be more than another 10 minutes thankfully. I'm feeling a bit like I can't breathe.

Thanks mrstobe. If I am losing the baby I know lots of women go through this and I should try to keep myself together, but my god it's difficult.

Just because a lot of people go through it, it doesn't make it any less devastating.
I've said prayers for you for the best outcome but god forbid it's not good news, allow yourself to grieve, just don't let the grief swallow you up. Xxxx

Sending love xx
Here if you need to chat

I really appreciate the nice words. Dad is here now and I've soaked a pad in the last 30 mins (sorry if TMI) so it's not looking good. Off to A&E now. Don't know when to call DP.

I'd say call him now for support but at the end of the day, it's your choice. Only you know what's best for you right now xxx

Thinking of you x

Sending prayers. So sorry you are going through this.

No heartbeat. Definitely a miscarriage. Not sure what happened to cause it yet. They said a lot of things but I didn't really hear them. Sounds awful but all I can think about is how glad I am that I didn't post on social media after the scan. Thinking maybe somehow I knew it would happen. I can't face telling DP so my dad is calling him now (I know it's cowardly). I feel okay, almost better now I know for sure. I don't think it's really hit me yet. Baby very much loved and wanted . Thanks for the supportive words. Not really sure what will happen now, hopefully my dad was listening better than I was.

Oh bless you. Hoping it's nothing, take good care of yourself and really hope it's not bad news. Thinking of you OP

Sorry @BramRang I've just seen your reply - my deepest condolences to you all. I'm so sorry

I am so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself. I'm glad your dad is with you.

So sorry OP

I am so sorry sweetie.

I’m so, so sorry OP. You’re not a coward at all, you’re strong and brave and going through hell at the moment.

Thinking of you

I’m so sorry

You poor love

I am truly sorry to read this. Heartbreaking, I hope they can find an answer as to why this has happened to you x