Hi there,
We went through a similar thing with our little one (although actually a bit scarier - but won't go into that now as it won't help, by just giving you sacry stuff to google ).
After our nuchal measurement and various other factors we went to a 1:60 of downs and high ratios for other chromosonal abnormalities.
When looking at ratios it all looks really scarey, and you can become almost convinced that there's a problem - but we found it helpful to translate them into percentages, which somehow gives you a more 'realistic' picture.
For example out 1:60 sounded really high, until you realise it means we still had a 98.4% chance of a perfectly healthy baby. In your case it's more than a 99% chance that all is well. I suspect you'd take those odds at a racecourse!
As we had been scared witless by a previous consultant, we opted to have a CVS (similar to an amnio, but they're able to do it earlier in the pregnancy).
We were warned about the risk of miscarriage (1:200) or something, but the consultant said that babies who were miscarried following such a procedure they suspect were more likely to have a problem which would cause miscarriage anyway, so that 'real' risk is considerably lower.
No-one can decide for you whether to have this test. We had to ask ourselves whether we would be able to take the odds and go on to enjoy the rest of the pregnancy without constant worry. You also need to think through what you would do if the result came back positive. If you think you wouldn't terminate abyway, then that may inform your decision too.
We decided that because of what we'd been through to that point, and because one of the possible problems our little one was facing had an 'incompatible with life' prognosis that the CVS was something we needed to do, both for our own sanity, and in order to make sure we weren't going to bring a baby into the world to suffer with insurmountable problems.
There's a lot of fear surrounding these procedures, but I have to say it was actually completely fine. It's a bloody big needle, right enough, and I wouldn't reccommend your wife looking at it as it goes in (the look on my husband's face was enough to assure me I didn't want to see!). Apart from a little sharp jolting pain when the anaesthetic needle hit my perinieum, it was completely painless and over in minutes. So I would say, don't make a decision based on fear of the procedure itself.
It's a tough decision, and I know all too well the fear, heartache and anxiety you're going through. But take heart from the fact that the odds are very much in your favour, your nuchal fold wasn't anywhere near as high as some people's I know, and the fact that your blood results came back good is an even better sign.
try to stay positive and faith in your little one - they're tougher than they look...
Will be thinking of you both, so let me know how you get on?
DB
xx