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How to bring baby home?

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Llamallamallama · 24/11/2018 11:23

We're in Central London and don't have a car. MW said a car seat is not required to leave the hospital, but how do we carry the baby home? Will presumably be in a taxi, 15 minutes home. I'm thinking the bassinet from our pram would be alright, though it is fairly bulky. Any other suggestions? Ta!

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TulipsInbloom1 · 24/11/2018 12:42

Just get the bus. Or send dh and baby on the bus and you taxi if too poorly to bus it. Or just buy a £35 infant seat.

SoyDora · 24/11/2018 12:43

For me, the decision would be nothing to do with what the midwives say and everything to do with whether I consider it an acceptable level of risk. Personally I wouldn’t, but it’s your call to make.

SoyDora · 24/11/2018 12:45

There are a lot of things that aren’t a legal requirement but that I still wouldn’t consider worth the risk.

woollyjumperseason · 24/11/2018 12:45

I would probably google baby hire company and see if you can hire a car seat.

lazymare · 24/11/2018 12:47

Do people not just push buggies into cabs all the time in cities?

KatnissMellark · 24/11/2018 12:47

Learn to use your common sense and assess risk yourself. Just because there's no legal requirement doesn't make it safe or sensible.

MissMoodyMoo · 24/11/2018 13:11

Our maternity unit won't let you leave unless you have a safe carseat even if you're getting a taxi home. A car seat is always a handy thing to have in the event of traveling further afield? To see family?a holiday? But most importantly your baby is less likely to die in the event of a crash. Surely you wouldnt get into a car and not put your seat belt on?

Llamallamallama · 24/11/2018 13:19

My understanding was that hiring or using a cab seat wasn't safe either as the history is unknown. I'm just surprised that so many people will buy a car seat for one use only.

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FallingForRosie · 24/11/2018 13:31

Very location dependent, but we got the riverboat home.

The OH went home to grab the pram, dropped off a couple of bags at the same time, and then it was a short walk from At Thomas to the Embankment stop.

Only issue was the pavement near our stop was a little bumpy for the wee Baba, so sling would probably have been a better option for the last stretch.

FallingForRosie · 24/11/2018 13:33

Le42 we called four local cab company to take us to the hospital at around 1am.

Put a towel and a couple of the incontinence pads down on the back seat.

The driver was excellent, did a great job of avoiding bumps!

FallingForRosie · 24/11/2018 13:37

Our not four dammit!

Bigonesmallone3 · 24/11/2018 13:38

I would either get a car seat, not a massive expense and ur never gonna go in a car for the first year or so of ur baby's life??
Or take ur whole buggy and wheel it into the back of a cab..
stop thinking convenience for you and start thinking safety of ur fragile newborn

PennyMordauntsLadyBrain · 24/11/2018 14:00

I'm just surprised that so many people will buy a car seat for one use only.

I think more pp are just realistic about how throwing a baby into the mix can change your previous routine. You mentioned you were 30 mins on a bus to the hospital for example- say you had a poorly newborn, do you think you’d choose to wait for a bus and then sit for 30 mins while the driver stopped at every hole in the hedge until your stop or would you choose to quickly book an uber?

Currently you’re happy using public transport, but buying an inexpensive car seat will give you the option to stick to public transport or use a car/taxi.

TulipsInbloom1 · 24/11/2018 14:00

Will you honestly never use a car of any sorts for 15 months? Ever?

lazymare · 24/11/2018 14:09

OP just borrow one for the very short journey home. It will be fine.

le42 · 24/11/2018 14:22

Thanks @fallingforrosie ! I read somewhere that like 70% of women for my hospital get taxis as it’s central London and no parking so it must be common!

HellenaHandbasket · 24/11/2018 14:30

I would just get a taxi, from a company that provides car seats as well. I'm sure there are plenty as it must be common.

If you find you are needing a car seat regularly later down the line then get one. Massive waste of resources otherwise

SoyDora · 24/11/2018 14:33

My understanding was that hiring or using a cab seat wasn't safe either as the history is unknown

But safer than no seat at all?

PotteringAlong · 24/11/2018 14:48

I'm just surprised that so many people will buy a car seat for one use only.

Because most people value their child’s life at more than £120

littledinaco · 24/11/2018 15:14

fair point but why wouldn't the midwife and government recommendations be stronger about requiring car seats?

Lots of things that are legal aren’t safe though, it’s two totally separate things.

A baby in a pram pushed into a black cab won’t be protected in a crash, the straps aren’t designed to secure the baby in an impact so even if you could secure the pram the baby would likeky be thrown out the straps.

In terms of people buying a seat for one use, I’m guessing most people would use occasionally, in friends/family cars, taking a taxi somewhere, want to have for an emergency incase a middle of the night hospital visit in taxi required, etc.

Or lots of people walk/bus/train from hospital if they really don’t want to buy a seat and can’t borrow one.

Obviously some people take the risk of a baby with no car seat and most will not be involved in a crash and be fine but it seems a really stupid risk to take. Imagine your newborn killed in a crash because you didn’t want to spend money on a seat or get the bus home.

Also, a hired seat is obviously safer than no seat but you would need to know how to adjust the straps for a newborn, fit it correctly, most seats have inserts for newborns these could easily be missing on a hired seat, like you say you don’t know the history of the seat. Not a risk I would take, not would I want the messing about trying to sort a taxi seat on the way out of hospital.

Tartanwallpaper · 24/11/2018 15:22

This is not ethical towards the shop but out of concern for your baby if you aren't going to buy one due to space or borrow one due to logistics..... Technically you could buy a car seat, use it the once, hope baby isn't sick on it, then return it the next day...... If you felt baby was more secure in car seat (because they definitely are!!!) then keep the car seat. Before I get flamed I know this is unethical and I wouldn't do it but then I wouldn't take a newborn home in a taxi without a car seat either. Sorry OP I'm not being nasty, it's just not a risk I'd take

lazymare · 24/11/2018 15:24

Yes it is bloody unethical.

E20mom · 24/11/2018 15:26

In a black cab you don't need a baby seat.

Tartanwallpaper · 24/11/2018 15:27

I know it is lazymare, but I didnt like suggesting it but the quality of the driving of many taxi drivers that I've been in makes me think if the OP definitely won't buy one maybe it's worth it?

Tartanwallpaper · 24/11/2018 15:28

I've had taxis drive off before I'd even got my kids strapped in, this is probably altering how I see it