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Not sure if to take mat leave early

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babybean19 · 24/11/2018 10:48

So...I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first. I work as a full time (37.5) GP receptionist, in an overly busy surgery....

I was off sick for nearly a week 5 weeks back with horrendous back ache...this was a result of being short staffed, and having to cover a manic front desk and being the less prescription clerk on a busy Monday...turned out my pelvis had twisted, causing shortening to one leg and a tendon that runs down into groin separating itself 🙈 so I'm sure you can imagine the pain! I paid privately to get fixed as as couldn't bare the pain.

When I went back to work I informed my boss I can no longer work a shift where I cover two positions resulting in me getting up and down like a yoyo as it is too much, and my private Dr states it was continuously stepping to the left to get from one desk to the other that would have caused the issue as putting to much weight through my left leg! I also told them I was unable to sit at one particular desk due to it not being the correct height, so resulted in me hunching to see my screen, leading to back ache. Was told that's ok, and was offered a more supportive chair.

Now, this last week and a half I've been put back in a position of having to cover two stations again, put back on the desk I can't use two days in a row, I'm currently doing three peoples jobs due to one being on maternity, and one not returning from maternity (so these ladies did just the one job each, I'm doing both and my own)
Training a new member of staff as well as seeing to patients at the same time!! Yesterday I got to breaking point, my manger the called me in to have a go that she asked me (whilst on my break) to see me, I didn't go as I forgot to be honest as very overwhelmed...she had a right go, so this made me just unravel and tell her I'm not coping, she is putting too much on me and going against what was agreed. She has never done a risk assessment on me and I've still not had my back to work meeting or risk assessment following a now medical diagnoses weakness which is aggravated by sitting. I get one 39 minute break in a 9.5 hour job.

I don't know what else I can do. I don't want to take early MAT leave as I know that's a good amount of time less with him the other side, but equally we can't live with no money 😩 I also don't know at what point my 8 week pay thing is done to calculate my SMP, so don't want to put that at risk...I can't complain to anyone as her and her husband own/manage/partners of the practice, so there is no one above them....he answer yesterday was basically just leave...and i should be telling her daily if I can't cope....I don't feel I should have too...as as an employee surely once a pregnant lady has told you they can't do something based off of a medical opinion for safety that should be enough!!!

I'm due to start my MaT leave in four weeks.....

What would you do?

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Russell19 · 24/11/2018 11:35

Go off sick with stress..you are clearly being ignored and this is impacting your health, babies health and your mental health. It's not on. If you are off with something that is not related to pregnancy I am led to believe they can't start your maternity early....... (Just check that though) xx

babybean19 · 24/11/2018 16:25

Thanks...I think from what I've read they can't force early may leave until you reach 36 weeks, which I would be off by that point anyway as atm it stands my first day of MAT leave will be Xmas eve, and I will be 35 weeks then.

I feel like I made a total fool of myself as I cried and got myself into one hell of a state, blurted everything out and just looked like an idiot who cries because they were told off...she literally waits until you're having a really bad day and then pounces with anything she wants to say to you...I felt vulnerable and just cracked...I worry buy going off sick it may make things worse if I wanted to return/have no choice too to this job. I know they're laws...but she doesn't follow them clearly as like I said...never had a risk assessment carried out yet!!

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Fatted · 24/11/2018 16:28

Get yourself signed off sick then go on mat leave at 36 weeks like others have said.

And look for a new job whilst on mat leave like the others are obviously doing!!

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