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[no1babyno1]

My boyfriend and I are struggling. We are always arguing because I'm hormonal or emotional and snappy. It is my thought I'll admit that but I can't help it most if the time. He is coming to the end of his patience. I'm making him unhappy and he don't know what to do. He said he doesn't want the baby to arrive and he be miserable because of our bad days. He can't see us getting any better as my emotions will probably be worse when baby is here because I'll be tired.

I don't know what to do or how to fix this please help I don't want to loose him because I'm a stroppy b**ch that can't handle her own moaning and emotions.

I'm going through exactly the same thing! We are arguing 24/7 because I am getting annoyed and upset about things that wouldn't usually bother me but atm they are! He said he cant be bothered arguing any more and can see the relationship lasting if this is how it's going to be from now on which really scared me! Now when he does something that annoys me I have to bite my tongue and sit back and think is this worth an argument or not and just try to let it go over my head. It's our hormones and emotions taking over us and hopefully it won't too long and everything will go back to normal very soon! Good luck x

This doesn't really help me now. He keeps saying we need to talk about it and he never usually say that's. He's usually let forget about it and move on. It's like he's hinting for me to break things off. He's acts like he wants a break and space but when I suggest that he said it's pointless as he wants me there but he know nothing will change. I'm so scared but if he's not sure. And he doesn't think we will last then why doesn't he just said I don't want to be with you. Instead of I love you and I'm happy some of the time xx

What about writing a letter apologising and explaining how difficult you are finding things at the moment. I can't take the pill because it makes me so depressed and actually turns me into a different person. It caused major issues in my relationship before I realised what the cause was and I sat and wrote a letter to my other half apologising for how difficult I had been but how I was determined to sort it. It made me feel better to get everything out on paper and it helped him to see that I really couldn't help my emotions during that time. In your case, this really is temporary and as hard as it is for him, this is not easy for you either but you are giving him a child at the end of it. Maybe come up with a plan such as one of you goes for a walk when it's feeling difficult rather than letting it escalate into an argument. Best of luck!