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Found out I am pregnant. Living in Latin America. Boyfriend wants an Abortion

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Morena830 · 13/11/2018 10:40

So I am 25 years old and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for over a year. We weren't planning on having a baby anytime soon but I recently found out I was pregnant. When I told him the first thing he told me to do is go and "interrupt" the preganancy because I was less than 2 months. I needed time to think I mean I just found out. Anyway I decided that I wanted to keep the baby and he has completely went crazy. He has been sending me messages to go to the hospital and we can't have this child now. He continues on saying how he doesn't want it and that he can't see that its a blessing. Side note we currently live in the Carribbean, I am from the US. So I told him that I was moving back home because I obviously have no support here. He goes on and sends more messages that I am fake and im doing this to be bad and all this other stuff. He claims I am fake because I didn't want a baby right now and now that I have found out I am pregnant, I decided to keep it. One minute he will try to be nice and sweet and as soon as I say I am keeping it he flips out. An abortion has never been in my heart. Also, not to mention the country we live on an abortion is ILLEGAL. He keeps claiming it is not one but I am smarter than that. It wasnt even the first thing that has crossed my mind. He makes me feel like I am the one being selfish for wanting to keep it.

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user1478639495 · 13/11/2018 11:33

Get yourself out of there on the first plane ticket available. You do not need this or him it speaks volumes, you out yourself and your baby first if he's not interested fine. He's shown his dark side by trying to force you to abort and where it is illegal I can't imagine how they'd go about that procedure if its illegal, doesn't bare thinking about. You can do this alone it will be hard but you can do it millions of people do it alone mums and dads and the rewards of watching your little one grow are priceless. Just get yourself out there ASAP and do not feel guilty for wanting to create a life it's a gift and the best gift of all xxx

Diane0313 · 13/11/2018 13:38

Dont do it it will be the biggest mistake of you life i had one in 2016 as my little girl wasn't even one and had and i regret it now as i had a mental breakdown because of it and ended up on depression tablets and i still regret it to this day i am now 7 weeks pregnant, and couldnt be happier just think about before you do it please put you and your baby first.xxx

Morena830 · 14/11/2018 09:50

Thank you for the support. I literally have noone to talk to out here. I felt like I was going crazy. I am definitely getting out of here next month. I know my family would be upset but at the end of the day I would have more support and love at home. In my heart the abortion is just not something I am interested in.

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emmab96 · 14/11/2018 16:02

Go home hun! You don't need that kind of negativity around you, it's your body you decide if he doesn't want to support you then you don't need him in your life! Stay strong girl your baby is a blessing and if he can't see that then he doesn't deserve either of you!xx

MrsTerryPratcett · 14/11/2018 16:05

Go home! Now. Regardless of the abortion request. You do not want to have a baby and get trapped in this arse's country.

Have you seen what is happening in El Salvador and Nicaragua right now with women being locked up?

user1478639495 · 14/11/2018 17:14

No I'm not aware what's happening with locking girls up? What's happening? I agree get out of there ASAP his awful attitude frightens me and if he sees any kind of bump I'd be very worried....I don't know I don't know him but from what you've described it scares me and I'd be getting out of there like yesterday xxxx

Diane0313 · 15/11/2018 11:03

Yeah wrong idea to get an abortion don't let anyone push you into something you don't want and your never alone I am here to listen as I have been threw an abortion xx

Morena830 · 15/11/2018 15:46

Thank you everyone for all the support. I have been keeping my distance from him. Im not even notifying him about the doctors appointments because who knows how he will act. I will be returning home in the beginning of December because I am a teacher.

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Diane0313 · 22/01/2019 09:40

Did you get back home?? X

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