Just found out I'm pregnant and me and my partner have split up

[Lauren19870]

So I've just found out I'm pregnant roughly about 4 weeks and me and my partner have spilt up we have a 6 year old son and my mind is a complete mess he hasn't seemed himself for a few weeks now I told him yesterday and ask how Does he feel he just said whatever you decide it's fine.
Then today I asked him again and he said he doesn't want it I don't know how to feel or what to do I'm 31 and thinking this would be my last baby but then I'm thinking is it fair for me to continue with the pregnancy just for my selfish reasons we have always used condoms but the condom spilt I can't think straight at all at the min anyone with advice please is much welcome.

to you. How do you feel? What would you like to do? Are you happy being a single mum? You are still young, I'm sure this isn't your last chance

I guess you're already going to be co-parenting one kid with him.. it might be a bit different if you hadn't have had any children with him, in which case, this new baby will completely alter the way you break up (i.e. will have to remain in contact due to the child) but I presume you're doing that anyway due to your 6-year old with him.

Also, depends on what reason you separated due to.. i.e. totally different situation if it was due to abuse etc rather than simply drifting apart

Hope it all works out somehow - guess it's good you'll have a while to decide as you know quite early on in the pregnancy

My situation is somewhat similar but not exactly. I found out i was pregnant in August, the bloke i was newly seeing reacted by straight away telling me he wanted no part of it and to get rid (then when that didnt work decided he would tell me he didnt believe it was his and therefore has had no further contact with me) But anyway, i also have a 10 year old son and at 30 years old and with my relationship history of finding it impossible to ever find a decent man, this will be my last chance to have another baby. I have decided to go ahead with the pregnancy, knowing i will be on my own and perhaps it is a selfish choice considering it wasn't planned and i had the option not to ahead. Your reasons for choosing whether to go ahead or not are entirely up to you and there is no right or wrong choice. Good luck with whatever you decide x